Your Best Testimonial Might Be a Near-Miss

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For most of the near-decade I’ve been filming video testimonials, I’ve suggested that my clients choose testimonial participants by looking first to their warmest, happiest, easiest clients. It makes sense, doesn’t it? If you’re using social-proof marketing, of course you want to feature those you can be completely confident will say wonderful things about your practice.

Last year, I filmed a testimonial with Dean, who was a wealth management client working with an advisor named Alex. But Dean had only agreed to an initial discovery meeting with Alex after his wife Betsy’s repeated appeals. Dean hesitated to hand his personal wealth over to an advisor because he had experience managing a trust for a third party. He was skeptical of paying for expertise he believed he already had. He simply couldn’t see how Alex, or any other advisor, could be trusted to make investment decisions for him, let alone justify the cost.

What made this testimonial particularly compelling wasn’t anything Dean said about Alex’s experience or expertise as a financial advisor, but the tremendous change in his attitude once he began working with Alex.

Betsy told me on camera that it took several years to convince Dean to sit down with an advisor at all, let alone hire one. But once Betsy finally succeeded at coaxing her reluctant husband into the discovery meeting, Alex's impressive knowledge and gently authoritative demeanor melted away Dean’s trepidation.

The man I saw on the screen in front of me was not the proud, stubborn skeptic you might imagine walking into Alex’s office for the first time, grimacing with folded arms, defenses on high alert. Instead, I was looking at a completely transformed, dyed-in-the-wool, wholesale champion for Alex (a man at least 25 years his junior, I might add), taking time to enthusiastically record an uncompensated video testimonial.